THE MUSING 03:

Why No Matter How Much You Do You Still Might Not Feel Successful Enough

You know what surprised me most when I started coaching visionary, powerhouse women?

It wasn’t the intensity of their schedules, the weight of their responsibilities, or how much they had achieved. 

It was how rarely they fully celebrated themselves.

Despite the success — the business milestones, the recognition, the leadership titles — so many of them struggled to truly recognize and feel successful. 

They could win awards, lead teams, hit the next big goal, and still feel like it wasn’t quite enough.

Like they should’ve done more. Done it faster. Done it better.

What I saw over and over again was that these women weren’t disconnected from their power — they were disconnected from their permission to own it.

Somewhere along the way, they learned to downplay their wins and rush past their breakthroughs. 

They were taught that being humble meant making themselves small -- that celebrating themselves might come off as arrogant, selfish, or out of touch.

So they kept moving, kept performing, kept setting the next goal — hoping eventually they’d feel the success that everyone else already saw in them.

But it doesn’t work that way. What they were missing wasn’t more proof of their worth — it was the ability to actually pause, feel their own power, and let that be safe.

In this work, we talk a lot about rejoicing - a practice that allows us to truly access our unique, personal power and train it into our nervous system. 

So that we can feel as magnetic and successful as everyone already tells us we “should”. 

That’s one of the biggest reasons I created The Muses — not just to help women recognize their power, but to truly full-body embrace it in a group of women doing the same. 

Because something powerful happens when a woman stops rushing past her own brilliance and allows herself to truly feel it.

Inside The Muses, we don’t just name our growth — we honor it together. We practice rejoicing not as a moment of indulgence, but as a pathway back to wholeness.

A way of relating to ourselves that invites more satisfaction, more fulfillment, more groundedness, more of the energy we’ve been chasing through performance

Because your worth was never in question — it’s about learning how to connect with it and build a relationship with yourself that honors how powerful you already are. 

Ask yourself:
Where have you been holding back your own celebration — and what might shift if you let yourself fully receive what’s already here?