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What to do when fear &"what if's" are holding you back đâł
Here's a reflection to turn those doubts into possibilities.
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As The Master Your Mindset Program Sale Countdown Continues, Hereâs a Reflection to Guide You Powerfully into The New Year.
2025 Starts & Our Sale Ends: in 3 days!
Hiya !
Letâs take a moment to imagine something: Itâs December 2025, and youâre reflecting on your year.
But this time, something feels different.
Instead of stress, doubt, or feeling stuck, you feel proud. Fulfilled. Youâre living a life that finally feels aligned and intentionalâone that you can look at and say âdamn, I really did do that â didnât I?â
That vision youâve been dreaming aboutâgreater self-love, health and wellness goals you actually love working toward, meaningful connections, and finally feeling empowered and fulfilled in your career (the works!)âisnât just a âsomedayâ thing anymore; itâs your reality.
Now, let me ask you:
What if this time, it actually works?
Because I know the other âwhat ifsâ that might be swirling in your mind:
âWhat if I fail?â
âWhat if Iâm not ready yet?â
âWhat if this doesnât work for me?â
Those doubts are normalâ just habits conditioned in the mind that come from fear, trying to protect you. But hereâs the thing: those âwhat ifsâ donât tell the full story.
So, letâs reframe them:
Instead of âWhat if I fail?â ask, âWhat if I finally see the results Iâve been dreaming about?â
Instead of âWhat if Iâm not ready yet?â ask, âWhat if Iâm ready enough to start?â
Instead of âWhat if this doesnât work for me?â ask, âWhat if this changes everything?â
As Bob Proctor once said, âFaith and fear both demand you believe in something you cannot see. You choose!â
It may seem too easy that something as simple as a mental reframe can begin to change your whole life (especially when your nervous system hasnât fully caught up yet)âbut thatâs how it starts. One reframe, then another, and another, until before you know it, those small shifts snowball into massive transformation.
The moment you shift from fear to possibility, you begin aligning with the life youâve always been capable of creatingâbefore the mind and all its inaccurate doubts got in the way!
Because hereâs the truth: the doubts, the âwhat ifs,â the hesitationâtheyâre just noise. When you choose to reframe them, you reclaim the power they once held over you.
So let me ask you: Whatâs one fear-based thought youâve been holding onto, and how can you turn it into a possibility-driven âwhat ifâ?
Start there, and watch how your world begins to shift.
And if youâre ready for deeper guidance, these intentional shifts are exactly what youâll master in The Master Your Mindset Program.
Over 12 months, weâll work together to:
Clarify your vision and create an actionable plan to bring it to life.
Release limiting beliefs that have been invisibly holding you back.
Build momentum by taking small, aligned actions that lead to big results.
Teach you a transformative practice and mental strategies that helps you master your mind so you never look at fear or doubt the same way again.
This isnât about wishful thinking or temporary motivation. Itâs about giving you the practical tools, guidance, and support to create transformation that lastsânot just for 2025, but for the rest of your life.
What could your life look like a year from now if you stopped letting fear hold you back?
The holiday sale ends in 3 days, on January 1st!
Your vision isnât just possibleâitâs waiting for you to claim it. Letâs make this the year you finally say, âI f*cking did that.â
With love and so much excitement,
Dominique