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Message #21: The version of you you’re becoming can’t be built on the habits that kept you small
Hiya ,
There’s a version of you that you’ve outgrown — even if part of you is still clinging to it.
It might be the habit of staying quiet to keep the peace.
The belief that your worth is tied to your productivity.
The pattern of overextending yourself in the name of being “good” or “reliable.”
You’ve carried these habits for a reason. They’ve helped you feel safe, successful, or in control. But the version of you you’re stepping into — the one that’s grounded, clear, and powerful — needs a different foundation.
It’s not just about shifting what you do. It’s about interrupting the beliefs that shaped those choices in the first place.
You can’t build a fully aligned life on top of old patterns of self-abandonment. That version of you was surviving. The one you’re becoming is here to thrive.
Try this this week:
Notice one habit or pattern you’ve been keeping out of comfort — and choose one small way to disrupt it with intention.