Hiya ,

Sometimes we wait too long to even admit to ourselves what we really want.

It’s like we think the moment that we’re truly honest with ourselves - we immediately need to jump into the plan. The “how”. The money. The time. The “readiness.”

This is what blocks us. This is what leaves us procrastinating our LIFE in habitual loops we know no longer feel good for us. 

The reality is, the biggest block to living a life we cannot wait to wake up to is that we’re just scared to admit we desire something more — before we know how to make it real.

Here’s the truth:
✨ Desire doesn’t need justification.
✨ It’s a compass, not a contract.
✨ It’s okay to want more even when your life already looks good on paper!!!!!

(Exclamations on that one because boy, does this come up often.)

Desire doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful. Desire doesn’t mean you’re lacking anything as you are in the present moment.

In fact it means that there’s a part of you that has grown so much that your vision is expanding. And you don’t have to wait until it’s fully mapped out to trust it. You’re allowed to get excited just for the desire itself.

You don’t need to explain or overanalyze your longing.
You don’t need to figure out the “how” right now.
You can be brave enough to say, “This is what I want.”, while knowing who you are right now is exactly enough.
And take one small, excited and peaceful step in that direction.

Because clarity doesn’t always come before the decision — sometimes it arrives because of it 🤍 And the process can be done in fun, easy, creative flow!

Try this this week:

• Ask yourself: What am I craving that I’ve been too afraid to name?

• Write down that desire — without editing or justifying it.

• Take one tiny step toward it this week (even if it’s symbolic).

• Affirm: “I’m allowed to want this — even without the ‘how.’ Desire is enough to begin.”

💌 WITH LOVE, DOMINIQUE